Forty years ago today, this man stood proudly waiting for his future wife to join him at the registry. His fear, she might not turn up, were soon dismissed as the most beautiful woman he had ever met joined him for their marriage vows.
Three weeks we knew each other before the engagement, and a further six weeks and the day had come. Now I wonder where are the sceptics that said it wouldn’t last? For in their face I want to stand and laugh.
Life has been a blast with her at my side, yes there have been times of strife and heart ache… but through all the bad times and good times we have always stood together.
We’ve been broke and down and by supporting each other we’ve turned things around. We are not the picture of a perfect marriage, but we have to have done something right, to still be together.
Now this poem I borrowed to share with her today, I wish I could have written one myself, but I do know my limits…
When years are passing by like days,
and in my hand your hand is placed,
a knowing smile crosses your face,
a simple touch can still make my heart race.
When I can see my soul in your eyes,
and you see your soul in mine we realize,
that a love so deep can harbour no lies,
where our only tears shed were happy tears we’ve cried.
I love you as much now as I ever did before,
if possible, I may even love you more,
all starting from a feeling we did not ignore,
a feeling of connection we chose to explore.
I don’t know what it is that you saw in me,
what I saw in you was the utmost happiness that can ever be,
even more so on the day when you and I became “We”,
I can still smile and say with love and truth Honey,
I love you…Happy Anniversary.
Love is not as simple as candlelight and roses……love is day-to-day living, taking time, making time to be there, with open arms and a giving heart…Love is the special life we share.
Happy Anniversary my Sweet Love!
For you, I thank the Lord above
You’ve given me hope, inspiration and truth
Because of you I feel never-ending youth
When heavy storms have come our way
Your love has always made me stay
Each morning I wake and see your face
I know in you, I’ve found my place
Our bond is extraordinary, beautiful, and real
It’s remarkable how wonderful you make me feel
We belong together, you and I
That, the world can never deny
Ne’er in my life will I find another woman
Who could ever fulfil me the way you can
The life we’ve shared this past 40 year
Has proved forever it shall persevere
I will love you forever in every way
That will remain constant until my dying day.
I read this several times the day you posted the Blog, too teary eyed to comment. As I read it again I am smiling at your beautiful love story!
Thank you… she is easy to love…
Oh my goodness…I’m going to get all teary…what a loving tribute. I’m sure your Bride returns the love and gratitude. I wish you so many more happy, loving years together. The Linda and Bulldog story is one to inspire us all…xo
Thank you.. Suzanne…
AWWWHHHHHHHHHHHH Who knew you were such a romantic!!! CONGRATS!
Now you see my soft side…
Congrats!!!!!!! We hit 45 years married on December 21 this year! Good for you!
Peter
Thanks Peter… time sure seems to fly… took so long to reach 10 and the rest has just flown…
Such a wonderful and touching post. Happy anniversary to the both of you 🙂
Thank you Inga… so nice of you to say…
Congrats to you both. Finding love like that doesn’t happen every day. You are a lucky man.
I knew this raving beauty just had to be mine… and I know what I want when I want it… she didn’t have a chance… but thank you for such a nice comment..
Congratulations!
Thank you..
It’s nice to know that true love endures and that some lucky people find “the one” the first time around! 🙂 My heart is happy for both of you!
Thank you Lorna… it’s been easy for me but, on occasions I think difficult for Linda, I’m not the easiest of people… but she has staying power… lol
And, if I were to guess, she would say the same thing about herself–which is why the two of you are still in love. You see the best in each other and are grateful that each of you accepts the other’s, shall I say, quirks. 🙂 That’s true love!
Blessings to the both of you…staying together for forty years…is a huge effort and you should both be commended.
Thank you… it’s easy with a woman like Linda… she’s the one that has to grit her teeth every now and then… lol
Congrats Bulldog! My grandparents met in a diner and were married a week later – they made it 61 years. When you know, you know.
Glad to hear there is someone that was faster than me… 61 years is a long time.. My grandpa pass 12 days before his 60th…
As I heard the story, they both went into a diner in Albuquerque and sat down at the bar. They found that they were both headed to California – even to the same city. By the time dinner was over Grandpa told Grandma that he was going to spend the rest of his life with her – and he was right!
Happy anniversary and many more of them.
Thanks Brian…
You and Linda were meant to be together, and I am very happy that you both realized it in time for the wedding! Much happiness and many congratulations to you both.
Thank you so much… I didn’t give her much of a chance to change her mind… when she said yes it was a rush to the wedding vows…
Wow! Congratulations!
Thank you…
This is so beautiful and so romantic… Congratulations to you both and Happy Anniversary, Blessing and Happiness, Thank you, love, nia
Thank you Nia… kind of you to say…
Just beautiful bulldog. You are such a romantic and sweet soul. Happy Anniversary to you and Linda and may there be many, many more my friend. 😀 *hugs* to both of you. xxx
Thank you so much Sonel… such a wonderful comment to receive…
This is a very thoughtful post, Bulldog… Happy Anniversary !
Thank you so much…
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How lovely, Rob. You and Linda have something very special, and the story is even more lovely when you mention how quickly the two of you knew you each had found “the one.” I hope you enjoyed your special day yesterday. All the best for a continued future together.
Yesterday was wonderful… Linda and I went to see a show all about the music from the 60s, 70s and 80s this did bring back a lot of memories and fun… had Linda dancing in the aisle… not me, I’m far too refined for that… or maybe shy…
This is the most beautiful post I have ever read on WordPress. Not sure if it is because I have grown to love you both so much or what…..but, I have tears rolling down my face. I am so happy for you both. You truly do show what true love can conquer when you stick together. Absolutely beautiful. Congratulations to you both!! And thank you!!
Thank you Skye… what a compliment…
🙂 It’s the truth!! Have a great week, Dear Friend!!
What wonderful words & some wonderful comments from so many people. Congratulations on your ruby wedding.
Thank you so much… the comment have been wonderful…
Precious, we should never take people for granted.
Thank you…
FORTY years! That’s incredible. And having known each other for such a short while… a brave step, but when you know, you know! Congrats, and many more years of love and companionship to you both.
Thank you so much for the lovely comment…
My friend, you defined love the way it should be. A love that is tested by time. A love that endures. I wish you and your wife all the love and joy today & everyday.
Thank you so much for such kind words…
Congratulations ♥ This is such a lovely way to show her your love ♥ I remember you told me the story (where you met each other etc.) one year ago. All the best to both of you and many more wonderful years together ♥
Thank you so much.. such a good memory…
Congratulations and many more.Beautiful post.
Thanks Spook…
You are a romantic, Love it and I am sure you made her cry. Happy anniversary. I am six years behind you two.
God bless your day ;o)
There was a wetness around that area… lol
Warmest congratulations to both of you!
What, you didn’t exclaim, ‘Just hang on a sec,’ and grab a camera to get a pic of her at the altar? 🙂
I did, but we lost all the photos in the flood of 2001, still water cannot erase a memory..
Congratulations on your anniversary. Cheers and my wishes for many more years together.
Thank you Maralee… I do appreciate the wishes…
What a beautiful love story…happy anniversary and here is to 40 more! You chose a very moving poem above and I am guessing the final part of the post was yours, a most heartwarming piece. 🙂
Thank you LuAnn… I wish I could claim the last one as being mine, but it is one I found on the net and had to do a little altering… so I suppose it is partially mine…
Whether it is all yours or not, the deep emotion I felt while reading this post was definitely all yours! The very best to you and Linda always! 🙂
Happy Anniversary to the perfect couple! I hope you enjoy your day together! (such a sweet post)
Thank you.. as the day draws close to the end I can with all honesty say it has been a good one.. we have just returned from a show all about the 60s 70s and 80s… and it brought back so many good memories…
Congratulations, Mr. and Mrs. bulldog! This was the first post I read today, the day My Beloved and I celebrate our 34th wedding anniversary (10/6). May my tribute to her be as beautiful as the one you gave to Linda in this post. I hope you had a great anniversary day, and may your future continue to be an adventure full of love, joy, gratitude, and admiration.
Russ
Thank you Russ… and may your day be just as good as ours was… and congratulations on 34… may there be many more lovely ones together…
A beautiful way to express your love for the woman who chose to take the journey with you. I’m glad she popped in and revealed how you met..it’s always fun to know where and how the journey began. While not quite as fast out of the gate as you and your lovely bride…we were 7 months in when we said our I do’s…32 years ago – and like you say…where are the skeptics now? Likely on number 2 or number 3! Hearty congratulations to you both, no one said it would be easy, but YOU can say it was/is worth it!
Thank you Rhonda… I was hoping she wasn’t going to reveal the speed by which I work.. but what can I say… I know what I want when I want it… lol
And you got it right first time around! There’s a lot to be said about knowing what you want and going for it! Blessings..:)
Happy anniversary 🙂 such a lovely tribute to your lovely wife.
Thank you Marion
A friend invited me to a house warming party and just as I arrived, this man with longish hair, a droopy mustache and legs that reached right up to his belly button,walked up to me and asked me to dance. Two minutes into the dance he asked me to marry him, I looked at him laughed, and asked him how many beers he had consumed, he in return told me that he was dead serious, and that he was going to marry me, he then stood back bowed, and introduced himself as Rob.
Thank you for 40 years, how time flys when your having fun….
How right you are… I thought I gave you at least 5 minutes before popping the question…
Warmest congratulations to you both, so wonderful to hear that you still mean so much to each other after 40 years.
Thank you Vanessa for such a nice comment…
Happiest Anniversary to both of you, dearest Rob. You’ve had a hard road on occasion but the wondrous beauties of a hard road are more intense, which shows in your photos.
Thank you Keira… so nice of you to say…
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& give your other half a congratulatory hug from me as well!
That is hands down the most beautiful blog post I have ever read! It is wonderful to hear about such a strong and enduring love in a time when so many people don’t take their vows seriously anymore. Congrats to both of you. You are obviously a very special couple :).
Thank you Cindy… she is an easy woman to love… and one I say with all honesty, my better half…
Congratulations! And may you be blessed with many more anniversaries, all of them happy and healthy!
Thank you kind Sir…
Congratulations, Mr and Mrs! What a great tribute to your 40 years together.
Thank you so much…
How sweet…..congrats on the anniversary 🙂
Thanks Ingrid..
A fitting poem for the celebratory couple. Happy Anniversary to you and Mrs. Bulldog. … and I just clinked the screen with my wine glass as a toast … and a song for the happy couple.
I enjoyed that thanks Frank…
Ohh (sniff, sniff) hand me a tissue! Happy Anniversary to you both!
Here you are take the box… thanks Diana…
No, seriously…you two are just too adorable. Happy anniversary 🙂
Thank you… never been called adorable before…
Congratulations to you both. Forty years is great going, and I wish you many more years of happiness together. Love the beautiful poems. They say it all. 🙂
Thank you AD kind of you…
Making your wife cry is most often a bad thing…but I’m sure these tears are ones of joy…and that is beautiful. Congratulations for making the long journey. You are an inspiration to those of us who believe in the longevity of marriage.
Thanks Mrs. P. time just seems to have flown… must be because we’re having fun…
How true – congratulations and happy anniversary! Being together so long and weathering all the storms together and coming out stronger for them is a major accomplishment!
Thank you… it is easier to weather a storm when you hold hands than if you try to do it alone…
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I kept scrolling down hoping to see a picture of your wife, but only found an elephant (from the previous post) – Maybe you could stick up a few pictures from 40 years ago and now (You’ve got 9 years on me and my mrs).
We lost all our wedding photos in a flood in 2011, she looked sexy and I looked funny… but thanks .. 31 years is as good as 40…
Wicked – congratulations guys – happy anniversary. Wishing you both a super special day with your friends and family but more importantly together. Love, love LOVE the poem – who cares who wrote it – says what needs to be said and is beautiful. Sending you both huge hugs from NZ. xoxoxo
Thank you very much… such a nice comment… glad I posted this…
Well done. Congratulations on your Ruby Wedding Anniversary. That’s good going.
Thanks Al… yep that little stone that costs so much…
Yep. My parents hit their golden next year.